hey guys, i need some real advice, wld be glad if u can help.
I met this girl a few months ago, we started dating, b4 long i feel in love with her.
we had fun together, even though there were problems, we still found a way to get past them.
Then last week it all went to hell, i was going tru somethings and i shut her out, it really pissed her off and she said she wanted to break up. My world has not been the same since, i have begged and begged, but she has her mind made up.
i have tried to move on but i cant,i cant imagine being with someone else, i don't even wanna be with someone else.
Nothing makes sense anymore, my life is ruined without her, I've not had a good night sleep since she left,i tried to make her see how messed up life without her is but i think shes gone for good.

someone please tell me what to do

sorry to hear that..since you've admitted that u think she's gone for good , i think its best for u to move on for ur own good..if she felt anywhere near the way u feel for her she would have given u a 2nd chance...seems to me that she's been looking for a reason to end it....and theres only an amount of begging a man can do b4 losing his dignity...gd luck

thanks man!!
she told me she has someone else....i guess she was never in love with me, she just wanted someone to keep her warm.
well I've learned my lesson

i was like you before some guyz here yab d hell out off me i do love but if she wants out let her be wit time i found out that i came to this world alone and i can stay alone as long as i want so bro take your time and see u came be urself if she is not dere all u need is time stay cool and she will come if she is urs

what really hurts me the most is that am not the kinda guy to fall hopelessly for a girl. but she was so good to me, truthful, caring, i really believed she was my true love.
i guess the player was played

"the player was played????"...You need help indeed "Mr Fly" if you play around with different women just so you can think "yeah! I'm da man!" (Shakes head)...I think its your "ego" thats hurt in this case :)

Sharrap make we hear word. 'player was played' block my yansh. u no b player O. U be real MUMU. Girl dey shook person for ya back dey tell U say she love u and u sef gree. e be like say u and Uzor na d same school una graduate from with 1st class degree in Mumuology. === Original Message === what really hurts me the most is that am not the kinda guy to fall hopelessly for a girl. but she was so good to me, truthful, caring, i really believed she was my true love.
i guess the player was played

@ Frank, i think you talk some truth. cuz i feel stupid for not seeing through it all.

@ Babzilla, guy sometimes u gotta let urself go hoping to find true love. u no fit be player for life, but still thanks for the talk.....i'll be more careful next time

na real wa

lmao@Babzilla!

Am with Frank here but hey Fly d best advise I could offer u is that "U SHOULD FORGET HER AND MOVE ON" it's obvious she've been playing u all along but if she does love u well u can always find a weak spot in her, make it count and she's all yours again! I doubt it tho cuz she broke up with u after couple of weeks and she's now with someone else? WAKE UP MAN AND MOVE ON!